NEWSLETTER

Sexual energy is just energy, like any other energy. This is your way of expressing that abundance of energy. It is not wrong. You may consider that you have numerous areas where you can express this energy as creative. Sexual energy is a flow of energy between opposite poles of male and female. It is the key to harmonizing the flow of energy in one's life. Some people have more, some others less. Active swingers usually have a lot of sexual energy. This can be one of the many reasons for swinging. You can feel your sexual energy. It's about 2 inches below your belly button or around that area, from the center out to the sides.

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Practice focusing your mind on it as you breathe in and out slowly. Imagine the power rising through your body and coming back down again, like a circle around you... This is your true personal power in action. This is powerful stuff. You can begin now. Do this often and become aware of the feelings there and notice the difference.

Sexual energy is one of the most powerful motivating forces in our life. We were designed to reproduce and the urge is primly imprinted. As we evolve, we still have this primal driver but our urge to reproduce  is no longer the life and death matter it used to be. So what do we do with all this excess sexual energy? We can learn to harness and use this motivational force in other areas of our life, if we want, or we can try to find a competitive swinger couple(s) and use all of our energy... if the chemistry is there... 

These days it is very easy to find a like minded couple. Millions of matchmakers and swingers websites are on the net, but still the best place is the swingers club. Remember everyone goes there for the same reason, to have no commitment fun... 

Are you looking for swing club in your area? Check out our swingers club links collection.

Anybody can increase very easily the amount of  their own sexual energy,  but I am not getting into that, not yet.

One of the above paragraph ended with the sentence: If the chemistry is there.

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Some swingers seek friendship and maybe more. Some others looking for sex only. People usually do not make love with their friends. You may find your best friend very attractive, but think about it, how can you ask her/him for a date. If you do, probably your friendship will be over. If you are a female and your best friend is a male, you shouldn't even try it. If he will be your sex partner and turns out to be a good one, you may have to marry him and it is not a friendship anymore.

Are you already married? In this case  it's even worse. You never will get rid of your turn to be a sex partner friend. Friendship is nice but swinging with somebody and being friends with somebody is entirely all different. I can say that, it is not that kind of friendship. Of course we can have a good time together, (we should have) and not just only in the bed, we can dance and laugh and go to the beach but  when sparks fly between two couples, we're quick to say we have chemistry and the day may end up in sexual action.

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Chemistry is what chemistry is. You mix two different chemicals (male and female) together (i.e. a date, or swingers club), and see if anything happens. There is no guarantee that there is going to be some reaction (sparks, that turn you on and you will be horny) from the mix, though one chemical (one couple) may want to react badly. Sometimes you have to mix chemicals with another chemical to get some reaction going (add an extra couple or single person). 

Interpretation: If you're with a new couple on a first date and nothing happens, (you do not feel any sexual energy and the sparks aren't flying around) and the other couple acts like they are doing you a favour, just to be there, you may have to look somewhere else for a sex partner. Usually if a couple doesn't see anything in you, on a first date, you should move on, because probably you are just wasting your time.

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Chapter 14 of our erotic e-novel is published.

...I handed Kelly her wine and she took a sip before she walked into the bedroom. Carl and I followed, catching alluring glimpses of her delightful bum as the hem of the tee shirt moved with every stride. She sat down on the edge of the bed and placed her wine glass on the bedside table. She removed her tee shirt, and gave us both a big smile as she did so. I sensed she wanted us both at the same time. It was clear that she would be more comfortable accommodating me in her mouth, so I took control.

I lay down on my back with my feet towards the pillow and Kelly, doing exactly as I'd asked, positioned herself over me, as if we were about to have oral sex together. Carl immediately knelt down behind her with his knees just inside and slightly behind hers. He grasped her hips and his erect penis sought out the delicate pink petals of her entrance. But Kelly was impatient, and had already reached down between her legs in order to guide him into her.....

Read all at here.

Have a lot of fun and play safe....

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